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I'm just starting this walk with my mom. At 82, she started showing more and more signs after my dad had an unexpected hospital stay and procedure. I really feel the stress triggered the advance. My father has several conditions, some chronic and 2 primary cancers.. he is in palliative care although he may have up to 2 years at this point. I am their caregiver, at 60, and also have a 13 yr old daughter.. so it's a lot. My mom's mother also had Alzheimer's, dying at 94 and so I am very familiar with the progression and what the future holds. I have no siblings, but my husband is as helpful as he can be.. best of all, we live very close to my parents.

I saw a video of Phyllis and I looked up your group.

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Hello. I came from Instagram, where your mother's story touched me as I walked the wretched Alzheirmer's journey with my own beautiful mother.

Her journey with this horrible disease began eight years ago, three years after she lost her husband, my father, to Vascular Dementia. Throughout it all, she never stopped smiling, never stopped singing, and never let us know she was anything but happy. I live several hours away, and fortunately, my sister was able to be with her daily while Mom was a resident of the nursing home. My sister called me every day after lunch or dinner, and I was able to talk to Mom. It was the best part of my day! I started writing a list of things she said that I knew I would want to remember one day. My favorite? One day, when I told her I didn't know anything exciting,  she said,…

Hi, my name is Beth. My Mom, Marilyn is 85 and was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s this past spring. She is now in the middle stages. My oldest brother lives with her and has been caring for her but now we have more people helping as she stopped bathing and getting dressed. They are both planning to move to an assisted living place together soon. I’ve noticed some things on your instagram that people have given as gifts. Do you have links for these items? The Gadget box or the snuggle puppy for example?

Also do you have any good resources on to how to talk with someone with Alzheimer’s. My brother keeps trying to correct her but I don’t think it’s helpful and she gets very anxious at times when he does.

Thank you for creating this! It’s a devastating disease and the grief is overwhelming.

Always, Beth

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